Anal Sex Toys Buyers' Guide
Anal play is fun and erotic; learn to use anal toys safely and comfortably with this anal sex toy guide. Anal Sex Toy Information.
Anal sex and stimulation are no longer the social taboo they once were. While not as conventional as other adult products anal sex toys and movies are on the rise. Anal sex has been the new sexual frontier for most people for many years and as the social morays around it lessen, more adults are learning about the pleasure of anal play.
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Anal play and anal sex are great way to have more intense orgasms and enhance your personal relationships.
What are Anal Beads
If butt play gets your motor running, you'll get plenty excited by the wide selection of anal beads we've got here at V.I.P. These anal toys are essentially a series of beads strung together with either a traditional string or connector made of the samd material as the "beads". Anal Beds are designed to stimulate your anus gradually and help you discover and arouse parts of your body that you never knew existed.
With anal beads, its best to start small and work your way up. Look for anal beads with graduated balls so you can increase the size of the beads as you feel more comfortable. Anal beads and sex toys are usually made from soft pliable jelly, rubber or silicone material for easier entry and to elimate any irritaion or chafing. However, the very traditional anal beads are often made from smooth, hard plastic. Before using your new toy always inspect your beads for rough edges, if you should find any smooth them by rubbing emery board across edge.
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If you're looking for an anal toy thats a little more hardcore, try something with larger nubs and more more texture that will take your ass adventures to ecstatic new heights. Remember not force anything into the anus but start slowly and gently and stay relaxed. And of course make sure you have a bottle of sex lube or anal lube handy for easy insertion; V.I.P. carries a large variety of lubes for every occasion. As you become a more experienced with anal sex toys you can move on to some the larger more impressisve anal toys.
It's important that you thoroughly clean all sex toys after use but even more so with anal toys. The anus contains bacteria that can be transmitted if toys and body parts are not cleaned properly. We suggest using a sex toy cleaner or washing with warm water and a mild soap.
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What are Anal Vibrators
What is an anal vibrator? Quite simply, it's a vibrator designed for "back door" use and can be enjoyed by both men and women. Not only is the anus packed full of nerves that can be pleasantly stimulated, but men can also use anal vibrators to excite the prostate gland--otherwise known as the "male g-spot"--to achieve blinding orgasms over and over again.
Anal vibrators are shorter and thinner than regular vibrators and feature a flared or extended base for easy removal. These vibrators generally measure 4 to 6 inches long with a width that can vary from 0.75 to 1.25 inches. Anal vibrators come in several forms. Anal probes, or wand vibrators are slim powerhouses are ideal for those who are just starting to explore this erotic playground. Or vibrating anal beads that come in an assortment of sizes as well.
How to Use Anal Vibrators
This material is one step up from plastic. While still relatively cheap, latex gives the vibrator user many more options. Latex vibrators are firm enough for deep penetration, but these sex toys have more give and a little more flexibility than their plastic counterparts. Because latex vibrators have much more friction than plastic ones, you should always use a lube with them. And of course if you have a latex allergy avoid sex toys made of this material/
When using an anal vibrator, its important to apply lots of lube to the anus and the vibrator itself for a smooth penetration. With sufficient lube, the anal vibrator should slide in and out with only slight resistance. DO NOT FORCE IT IN. If the resistance is too much, you can try inserting a finger to slightly loosen the sphincter ring. If that doesnt work, stop trying to use the anal vibrator. Continue the finger exercises regularly over a two-week period to loosen up the sphincter before trying out the anal vibrator again. If this is your first anal vibrator, then look for one of the smaller-sized anal vibrators or for one advertised as a beginners model. Until you have adjusted to the experience and know you can handle it, trying to use a larger anal vibrator is just asking for trouble.
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Beginner Anal Sex Toys and Anal Play
Just because you havent done it yet doesnt mean its not fun! Thats what a lot of lovers are discovering about the joys of anal sex toys, either as part of foreplay or during sex. But if neither you nor your partner have tried anal toys, you may be a little confused about exactly what those funny-shaped things are and how to use them. Anal sex toys fall into three main categories: anal beads, anal plugs, and prostate massagers or vibrators.
But first, a little about sex lube (lube should always come first in anal play!). A good anal sex lube is an important part of the fun: because the back door has no natural lubricant and the area is very delicate, it needs a thicker lube than usual. Pick a high-quality sex lube designed specifically for anal use. Or try a slight numbing lube, especially good for first-timers. You might have to continue adding lubricant during anal play, no matter which kind you use.
The biggest rule in anal play is to take it slow and easy: nothing in anal play should ever hurt or be uncomfortable. Communication with your partner is an important part of the experience: tell him or her what feels good and what doesnt.
Warming up: The second most important rule in anal play is to relax the anal area. This is where the fun foreplay really begins, with a nice relaxing massage of the entire ass. Start with an erotic massage oils. Massage the buttocks in a slow and sexy motion with your hands, letting your partner get really relaxed (but dont let him or her fall asleep!). Then, lube up your little finger and (informing your partner first -- no surprises in anal warm-ups) sloooooowly insert it in the anus, just a little way. Massage the anus opening slowly with the finger, until you feel your partner relax, and keep inserting the finger and massaging. If your partner feels uncomfortable at any point, stop and back up. This will also tell you how far you can insert an anal toy to start. And when youre using your finger, be sure to trim and file the nail. If you have long nails, try a cotton ball around the nail and use a latex glove.
Anal Beads: These are the easiest and most comfortable to use for beginners, especially the graduated-size beads that start small and get gradually bigger. Graduated beads often come in sticks of soft flexible material like silicone or jelly connecting the beads. A good example of these beads are jelly anal beads with 10 beads that start at only a quarter-inch diameter. Of course there are beads on actual strings, and even vibrating anal beads that light up and flash in different colors -- you have to see these work to believe them!). And if youre worried that these toys might get lost up there, relax: anal beads come with handles. To see Adam and Eves great selection of anal beads and toys, go here.
How to use them: Remember to lube up generously! Insert the beads slowly, giving your partner a chance to get used to the feel. When your partner says the beads feel good, stop inserting and leave the beads in during sex. When your partner starts to climax, pull the beads out one at a time, straight down, during orgasm. Be prepared for screams of pleasure.
Anal Plugs: Anal or butt plugs are designed to stay in place during sex. Theyre tapered cones to glide in easily, but quickly widen for more sensations. Our advice to beginners is to start small with one of the plugs pictured here. Butt plugs can vibrate or not, and many of them come with a suction-cup base for solo play. Then there are plugs that are more like a combination of anal beads and butt plugs For a mind-bending sensation, you can also get anal plugs that vibrate. For a few of our multiple-speed plugs, see our selection here.
How to use them: You can leave the plug in place all during sex, or during masturbation. Start slowly, breathe deeply and relax your sphincter muscles as the plug goes in. Eventually, your muscles will relax just below the widest part of the plug, holding it in place. Dont panic if it comes out: using an anal plug takes practice as your muscles get used to the sex toy.
One For The Boys: Prostate Massagers and vibrators: Oh baby, oh baby! If your mans goal is a dynamite orgasm that leaves him quivering in pleasure (and whose goal isnt?), a prostate vibrator will sure get it done! Prostate or P-spot stimulator wand-type vibrators are basically shaped like a finger with the tip crooked in a come here gesture just about the same shape as a womans G-spot vibrator. But many toys designed just for the prostate have additional features that also stimulate the testicles and perineum or taint (the area between the balls and rectum)which is also great for solo prostate play. These prostate stimulators are often designed in a modified L or J shape or shaped a little like a ships anchor to stimulate the prostate, testicles and perineum at once.
How to use them: Often called the male G-spot, the prostate gland is located inside the rectum, between the base of the penis and the testicles. Its a round bulge about the size of a walnut. Have your man lie on one side or on his back with his knees drawn up toward his stomach, which allows for better placement of the sex toy. Always insert and use the sex toy gently and slowly. Never use a thrusting motion on the prostate gland: a slight pressure on either side is more effective. If youre using a prostate massager like the Rude-Boy for masturbation, you can sit up and rock back and forth on it while you use it alone or, for an absolutely mind-blowing experience, with a male masturbator. If youre using it during sex, go slow (no wild monkey sex yet!) and let your muscles get used to the sex toy. We dont think we even have to go into the ecstasy of using a prostate stimulator while getting a first-class blowjob or handjob.
If youre using the wand-type vibrator with your partner, have your lover rock the wand gently from side to side, avoiding the very center of the prostate. A great position for this technique is the Reverse Cowgirl (woman on top and facing away from the man).